Amiya and Akiya

Chapter 3

I like my best friend’s boyfriend, and I want to take him from her. He is seriously the only guy for me. How do I do it? Amiya and Akiya, help me. How should I do it?

Ok wow, we are just going to get right into it with the new year, huh? There is nothing to worry about because we will talk you through this.

We are going to give you a few questions to think about before you officially act on your desire.

1. Are you willing to break up your friendship?

When you say that you want to take your best friend’s boyfriend, do you REALLY know the affect it will have on your “best friend”?

You will be actively breaking up this friendship and it will be 100% your fault. You cannot blame anyone else but yourself; it will be all on you.

Are you going to be okay with knowing that you broke an unspoken rule between the two of you?

2. Never speaking to your best friend ever again.

Are you ok with never speaking to your best friend again over a boy?

I don’t know if you knew this or not but once you steal her boyfriend, you two will most likely never speak again.

You will be completely cut off from her forever. If this best friend is a true friend to you, why would you want to hurt her?

True friends are so hard to find when you take her boyfriend; that true connection will be lost.

We feel that a true friendship is better than a boy that won’t even be there to stay.

3. Is he even worth it?

Just sit and be 100% honest with yourself. Is this guy really all that? Is he really one of a kind? Or is he just someone you find kind of cute? What is it about him that makes you want him so badly to the point you are willing to break up your friendship?

Then think about if you actually do get with him. What if he leaves you right after you make things somewhat official? Then you will be the one ending up with no one at the end.

You always must keep in mind you will more than likely lose him just like you got him. What we mean by this is if you got with him because you stole him from your best friend. That is the same way you will lose him; he will leave you for another woman as well.

If he easily left your best friend, what makes you think he wouldn’t leave you the same way? It would be a constant cycle that will repeat itself with the next lady. In other words, it would be you.

Is he really worth your special companionship? Is he really worth all the stress and emotional distress he is going to put you and your best friend through?

4. There are other options

This guy isn’t going to be the only person to strike your interest, you know that right? He isn’t the only guy on this planet that looks good.

He isn’t the only guy that has the same things in common with you.

I know this may sound a little cliche but seriously, there are more fish in the sea. Do you know how many guys there are in this world? There are 7 billion people in this world, with approximately 4 billion men in it.

And you are trying to tell us this is the only guy for you…

5. How would this truly make YOU feel?

We know that some people brag about stealing people’s men. Women see it as a flex to be able to get someone who is already in a relationship. But we don’t see that as a flex.

That act should make you feel bad because you are actively breaking up something that makes people happy. You are breaking up two people who are committed to each other.

If you were in a relationship with a guy and you knew that there was another woman trying to take him away from you, how would you feel? You would feel threatened and scared that he would leave you for someone else. That feeling doesn’t feel good no matter who you are.

Instead of thinking of your feelings, think about the affect your actions will play on everyone.

Closure

If you have read this post and really feel that you are ok with all the consequences that will come along with your act, then go right ahead and steal him! But we can’t give you help with how to do it because that would go against who we are. We don’t steal other people’s men. We want someone who is single and only focuses on us as individuals. We build and have a strong trust system and we know that we will never steal each other’s men. We know that because we value our sisterhood and our relationship more than a guy.