Amiya and Akiya

Chapter 2

” I want this guy but it turns out he has 5 kids along with 5 baby mama’s. I really like him but I don’t want all those kids(I have none) and all those problems. what should i do Amiya and Akiya?”

Alright fren we are going to tackle this all but lets talk about the basics.

You are SINGLE with NO KIDS.

Do you know what that means ? You have don’t have to take care of anyone else besides yourself.

Reading your comment what it looks like to us is that you don’t want to take on the responsibility of the five kids that come along with this guy that you like.

Not only would you have to deal with the five children he has you would also have to deal with the 5 baby mama’s he has as well. This guy to me seems like he doesn’t commit to any girl that walks his way.

How would he even have enough time to talk to you if he was supporting his family like he needs to. Is he present in his kids life or did he leave them and not take a part in raising them?

You also don’t know the type of relationship’s he has with his previous baby mama’s. He could be secretly going back to them behind your back.

Not one of these baby mama’s have a ring on their finger from him. There is no way to tell how he treated them when they were in a relationship. We are looking out for you and we don’t think you should date this guy nor hang around him for too long.

We think that you deserve to be with someone who fits your style and values. How would he be able to take real time to get to know you if he has to deal with 5 other women as well as 5 kids?

We feel that there are plenty of guys out there that you will like while also having no kids and no baby mama’s.

Picture it this way if you really know the guy would he be interested in you if you had kids? Would he still try to get in a relationship with you if he knew you had 5 kids along with 5 baby daddies.

NO he wouldn’t he would turn the other way.

So go out a search for someone else go and find someone that can give you all their time without being occupied with other important responsibilities.